Right, not long back from the game, well a weekend in Manchester actually, so this is the first opportunity to comment on yesterdays actions.
I am as loyal as they come when it comes to Southend, and everything related to it, but I have to say, IMO and from where I was sitting, along with a few others who I was not actually with, the only people to have any cause to doubt their actions were some of our fans.
It was absolutely no surprise to see people being ejected when they were blatently not behaving as they should do. Everyone knows the rules when it comes to standing up, and some of the language, aggression, and damn right rudeness of some of our supporters means I am only amazed more were not thrown out. Unsurprisingly, some of the fans asked to leave, or in some cases escorted, were fans I have seen removed at other away games this season on at least 2 occasions.
Perhaps the idea of going to a game, supporting your team, and not looking for any angle to wind stewards and other people up is beyond some of our fans, but I have to say how many times do some people need to be told to sit down before it sinks in those are the rules at football grounds now??? The juvenile chant of 'stand up if you love Southend' which ensues at every away game as soon as the stewards ask people to sit down is just a bit tedious.
There was one instance, when a Southend 'fan' deemed it necessary to stand right in a stewards face and telling him to 'fk off' 5 times, and then wonders why he is asked to leave???
The most amusing thing was one fan shouting insisting a steward had assaulted him, despite only putting his hands on his chest, and at the same time, flailing his arms around so much that on at least 3 occassions, whacking me in the back of the head - I did point out to him that the irony of what he was saying was incredible, but it was lost on him.
As for the overcrowding, there were enough seats, but people did not seem to want to sit where there were spaces - well if you got in the ground a littler earlier, then perhaps you would have more of a choice as to where you sit, and who you sit with.
For the MAJORITY who wanted to go to the game, support the team, enjoy the afternoon (unfortunately, both the team and fans let us down on that one) there were absolutely no problems - in fact, speaking to stewards before, during and after the game, I found them all extremely helpful, pleasant and almost in disbelief at the behaviour of some of our fans.
There may well have been incidents of some heavy handedness, but in all honesty, I didn't see any, and I had a pretty good vantage point, but you tend to get treated by people the way you treat them, and on quite a few occassions, what I saw were people acting like complete neanderthols, and then throwing their toys out of the pram because someone had the gall to tell them it was unacceptable to behave like that.
As I said, I didn't see all of it, and I'm sure I will now be confronted with a barrage of abuse and vitriol about how unfairly some were treated - and there may well be some genuine bad treatment - but it's funny how those who only want to go and watch a game of football and enjoy themselves seem to tbe ones who manage to achieve exactly that.