Question What is making you happy today?

[EastStandBlue]

I think it's fine to laugh at disabled people, they are often funny and often do funny things. If you are disrespectful or just see them as amusement then obviously that isn't the case.

I only saw 5 mins last night but it seemed genuinely interesting and you can't help at laugh at some of the things that they were saying (the guy rehearsing 'Do you want to go to bed with me?' in French:hilarious:) - also the guy with tourettes who's girlfriend laughed at the random swearing he'd do... it made him relaxed and happy and laughing is a positive emotion for them to see in someone that they're connecting with.

Basically - if you're laughing in a nice way, that's fine - if not, you're a c-unit.

It's easy to think that Channel 4 are just making programmes for our own amusement (gypsies, undatables etc) - but I can't help but think it also makes you re-evaluate some of the prejudices and stereotypes we might hold. The fact that we're discussing whether it's ok to laugh at disabled people is a perfect example of what they were trying to do, IMO anyway.

I think that's exactly it. I was hugely sceptical of Channel 4's ability to pull off a show like The Undateables, but fair play to them they've managed to tow a line that is neither condescending nor insulting. If anything the show reinforces the point that despite their disabilities, these people act and seek out human companionship just like everybody else does.

 

[MK Shrimper]

Agree totally with Pubes/ESB. DWB came across like he was laughing at them purely because of their condition. I apologise if it isn't (and I hope it wasn't) the case.

 

[davewebbsbrain]

Agree totally with Pubes/ESB. DWB came across like he was laughing at them purely because of their condition. I apologise if it isn't (and I hope it wasn't) the case.

I'd never laugh at people because of their condition. The people on this programme are really lovely people. Last night, the girl with downs who went out for a meal with her man to celebrate a year together expecting an engagement ring and got a 1D diary really made me laugh. The tourettes guy was so so funny and his new girlfriend embraced it.

As for Michael, what a guy. So straight and blunt with all his answers. The suit guy wished him good luck today and he replied 'you too'. Explaining in detail about garlic breath and why he was eating mints was brilliant. Really good entertainment.

 

[MK Shrimper]

I'd never laugh at people because of their condition. The people on this programme are really lovely people. Last night, the girl with downs who went out for a meal with her man to celebrate a year together expecting an engagement ring and got a 1D diary really made me laugh. The tourettes guy was so so funny and his new girlfriend embraced it.

As for Michael, what a guy. So straight and blunt with all his answers. The suit guy wished him good luck today and he replied 'you too'. Explaining in detail about garlic breath and why he was eating mints was brilliant. Really good entertainment.

Fairy 'nuff....

 

[Roxy]

Barney's back! - League One we are on our way ....:happy:

 

[Pubey]

"Allardyce, when told of his opposite number's comments, laughed and said: "I don't give a sh*te, to be honest.""

:smile::smile:

 

[Uncle Leo]

As Wetherspoon pubs go, the new one at the services near J2 of the M40 isn't half bad. Staff are pretty useless but there are lots of them. Royal Windsor Knot an enjoyable pint (wife drove home!)

 

[Massimo Giovanni]

"Allardyce, when told of his opposite number's comments, laughed and said: "I don't give a sh*te, to be honest.""

:smile::smile:

I thought his comments on the "21st century defending" was witty retort at Jose. It says a lot about the bloke that he can be humorous while under such pressure.

 

[THE SEVENTIES NORTH BANK]

I thought his comments on the "21st century defending" was witty retort at Jose. It says a lot about the bloke that he can be humorous while under such pressure.

Incredible pot/kettle from Mourinho when Chelsea go to Old Trafford and play no striker and park the bus for a 0-0 draw.
Well done Big Sam for giving it to that baby.

 

[MK Shrimper]

I did roast pork today and the crackling was immense. The yorkies went a bit flat though. :'(

 

[OldBlueLady]

I did roast pork today and the crackling was immense. The yorkies went a bit flat though. :'(

Shabby Paul, not up to Masterchef standards! :winking:


Just reading through southendforeva's post, it makes me smile. I'm just so sorry we didn't get a win and that he didn't get to meet some of my personal favourite Zoners (and yes, Coxy, that includes you!).

 

[MK Shrimper]

Shabby Paul, not up to Masterchef standards! :winking:


Just reading through southendforeva's post, it makes me smile. I'm just so sorry we didn't get a win and that he didn't get to meet some of my personal favourite Zoners (and yes, Coxy, that includes you!).

Yer, used the pork fat to cook them in. Doesn't work!

Had to skedaddle after the Hull game and at half time I was stuck in the loo!

 

[OldBlueLady]

Yer, used the pork fat to cook them in. Doesn't work!

Had to skedaddle after the Hull game and at half time I was stuck in the loo!

No, has to be the right fat for yorkies, lard is definitely best :sick: but I do ok with goose fat.

 

[Uncle Leo]

Great Britain beating the USA in the Davis Cup :smile:

 

[Pubey]

No, has to be the right fat for yorkies, lard is definitely best :sick: but I do ok with goose fat.

definitely lard for yorkies, and the pan has to be super super hot.

not a lot to be cheerful about in the pubey household at the moment, but looking forward to finally getting a new addition to the family. only a couple of weeks to go...

 

[Ricey]

Saw Che Wilson in his car on the M40 last night. I miss him :sad:

 

[MK Shrimper]

Great Britain beating the USA in the Davis Cup :smile:

Indeed great tennis from Murray last night. That boy is re-writing the history books. :clap:

Italy away? No problem. If Murray stays fit I can see us reaching the Davis Cup final. That, however maybe another story.

 

[EastStandBlue]

Taking Betfair for £270 last night. Wattel, Olesen and DeLaet paid for my weekend and then some.

 

[LCBB]

The birth of my new grandson and new Southend United supporter :happy::happy::happy:.

 

[Ricey]

The birth of my new grandson and new Southend United supporter :happy::happy::happy:.

Congratulations! :smile: