Took a while out to reply, no point in keyboard battles and all that. You missed my point, you obviously don't sit in row M normally, doubt you'll be there for Yeovil or ever again.Wondered where you normally get your fix in the ground? Hopefully you can relate why I made the comments to my son about Cech, we spend hours studying keepers at all levels, watching the warm-ups and so on, he picks stuff up, but the Federici kicks need some work for a 9 years old. But just trying to progress him with his favourite sport as he really wants to push on.
Clearly we have different ideas on parenting and how to support the club.Standing on seats is very dangerous to me ! I did sing alot last night, but not standing up or waving my arms, some times my lips hardly moved ! Some times I don't, certainly did'nt on Boxing Day. We sit where we do to get a good view and will do so whilst we can afford it, we seem accepted in row M for the last 4 years, but then again it is a clean living row, hardly anyones been for a drink, just there to support the team, sometimes very quietly. I'm not sure you realised it, but you kept banging into my son, obstructing his view, I'm not sure if you'd been drinking or over excited, maybe I should have said something early on, maybe you did'nt realise you were doing it or looking for a row, disappointing if you were. I let it go, Roots Hall is like a second home, big games do throw up people you're not familiar with ( what about the bloke behind us shouting 'rent boy' when either of the Coles got the ball ?).
Looks like your son might go withyouto games alot, ask yourself how you would have reacted ?
Anyway, only you know if you'd been drinking, wanted a row or whatever. I'm not defending row M because there's nothing to defend, and it's not a row who slag off the team either.
I think you need to re-read both my posts. I already apologized if I blocked your sons view Used to sit in the south upper, now work and my children restrict when I go, but managed to get a ticket for last night as I had been to a few games this season, mailnly in the south upper, but also in the family stand with my boy. I hadn't been drinking, I don't drink and drive, I am just very passionate about Southend United, and anything else I believe in.
No, I wasn't looking for a row, not the violent type!
Yes, I was put into totally the wrong section,(I shall learn from that if I sit in the West stand again) I am used to people jumping up and down constantly, ever since 90/91 in the North Bank, where if you hadn't been crushed in a surge, The Blues hadn't played well!!
Your son is 9, wants to be a good goalkeeper...cut him a bit of slack. If he is there to support Southend United, let him. There's no point watching what Cech is doing whilst Chelsea are attacking (although a goalkeepers awareness must be there at all times), half the enjoyment is watching your own players defending and seeing how they cope with world class players.
There's plenty of time during the week and weekends for coaching!
If the whole stadium were as quiet as where I sat last night,the players wouldn't even know anyone was there. The Blue Voice is there for a reason, to make noise, to be exhuberent, to let the players know they are being supported.
There is a limit to banter, yes the guy behind banging on about rent boy was a total moron, and I am hoping you are not branding me with the same brush!!
In a nutshell, I have never been anywhere like last night, didn't know it existed, but if it's your way of supporting The Blues, then so be it!