Choosing a best man

[DTS]

Have you sounded them out? Its quite possible one or even both might not actually want the job.

Good point,

Having done it twice I would be really reluctant to do it again personally.

 

[Kent Shrimper]

Well hello folks, back from my travels - and if you're not already aware via the magic of FB, my missus Zena said yes to me when I proposed in a piazza in Sorrento, overlooking Vesuvius and the bay of Naples.

Now I've got two very good mates and I'm stumped how to choose between them, 'cos I'm wondering how the other would take it.

I know there's been a lot of SZ weddings this year - did any of you have similar problems?

Congrats mate.

I couldnt choose between 3 life long friends, so i had 3 best men!!!

 

[MK Shrimper]

Have you sounded them out? Its quite possible one or even both might not actually want the job.

True, but do people actually turn down the offer? I'd be mightily offended if one of them did!

 

[steveo]

True, but do people actually turn down the offer? I'd be mightily offended if one of them did!

Dont know if youve ever done it, but like DTS ive done it twice, and in a selfish sort of way it can spoil your own enjoyment of the day, so if one of them has done it before maybe he wont be all that keen.

Perhaps you could use that as your excuse for not choosing one.

 

[MK Shrimper]

Dont know if youve ever done it, but like DTS ive done it twice, and in a selfish sort of way it can spoil your own enjoyment of the day, so if one of them has done it before maybe he wont be all that keen.

Perhaps you could use that as your excuse for not choosing one.

Yeah I have did it a few years back, curiously though I've lost touch with the bloke I did it for as he moved overseas. Think one has done it before, and fairly sure the one I'm leaning towards hasn't.