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The purpose of eating small meals is so that you are giving your body what it needs when it needs it, rather than letting excess carbs/fats/sugars just be stored by your body.
I know a lot of people don't eat breakfast. I never feel hungry when I wake up, but one of the most important things you can do when losing weight is to have a small bowl of whole-grain cereal in the morning, even if you don't feel hungry. By "small", I mean 3/4 to 1 full cup. Eating whole grains provides carbohydrates and nutrition for your body to jumpstart your metabolism.
If you had breakfast at 9, a good time to eat lunch would be around 12:30. Try not to postpone eating until you feel like you are starving. Instead, eat at the first twinges of hunger. This does two things: lets your body continue to burn fuel efficiently, and keeps you from overshooting how much food you actually need. A good analogy would be putting new wood in an already-burning fire... you don't want to smother it, just keep it going.
Have a healthy snack around 2 or 3pm (carrot sticks, an apple, celery, granola bar...), dinner between 5-7, and don't eat after 8. Your body's natural cycle is to start in the morning and start shutting down in the evening... if you work with the cycle, your body will take care of itself naturally.
Drink water all throughout the day. The recommended 8-10 glasses is kind of extreme (unless you want to spend your day at the urinal), but several glasses will keep you from falsely feeling hungry and will keep you hydrated.
As far as exercise goes, you don't need to over do it. I don't know about you, but I don't particularly like working out. I do 20 diamond pushups and 40 crunches in the morning, and the same when I get home and that's about it. The main thing is to be consistant. Don't work out like crazy one day and then not do a damn thing for the rest of the week.
Don't try to completely swear off junk food and everything else you enjoy. First, you'll say "f%&k this" after about a week and give up, and secondly, there's more to life than being healthy... it's a good thing to enjoy the occasional pizza or candy bar or whatever your poison is. The operative word is "occasional", though. Moderation is the key.